Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Life's Little Lessons.



Well here it goes. Just that this time round, it's no longer the usual nonsensical shit i've always preferred to type.

I noticed how fake of a person i truly am.

I realised that when you need help from someone especially who is just a hi-bye, not-so-close-friend, you tend to reveal a disgusting fake-ness of yourself. Well in this case, its me.

And just put it this way, that particular casual friend, who is a classmate of mine, kindly offered me help.

It seems that in the process of ' over-offering ', i must've irritated my benefactor. Yes indeed he was of immense help to me but he was offended. I promised to get him breakfast, send him a lift down to the nearest MRT station yadayada... you get the picture.

But all in all, its only when he turned down my offer then i finally realised that all things tangible is never the main reason as to why we turn to offer our help to someone, be it a friend or stranger.

He only wanted a sense of appreciation for that tremendously little thing he'd done for me & i didn't realise it and in return, revealed the ugly-fake side of dan the man.

Humans are somewhat complex ass creatures but 1 simple thing that all of us do need in our quest for survival..

to feel important & appreciated. point taken !


1 comment:

Anonymous said...

LOL. seems like ya growing up =D